Today Inverloch 3996 sits down with L'Erin Alta to talk all things sister fire and defining your goals with soul. Perhaps its time for you to re-address your ideas on purpose, freedom and love? Are you a woman wanting to explore your desires, passions and gifts in a powerhouse sisterhood, then keep reading.
What is the #1 thing that holds most people back from having the life they really truly desire?
Women are often so focused on being good mothers, wives, daughters, employees, entrepreneurs, makers and doers that we lose connection with our soul's deepest desires -- what in the Desire Map World we call our core desired feelings. Over time, we can find ourselves in a "good enough" life -- an impressive education, a stable job, a picture-perfect family, a cozy bank account but there's an insatiable longing for more -- more connection, more truth, more freedom, more laughter, more love, more life.
When we're clear about how we want to feel, we make brave, courageous, loving choices that reflect our soul's truest calling. We align self with Soul and can experience deep satisfaction -- no matter what else is going on around us.
What can you accomplish when you know your Desires?
In my US Desire Map Workshops, I've witnessed women transform their marriages, businesses, friendships, health and home in less than three days.
Two small stories -- After years of a strained, estranged relationship with her husband, on the second day of our Level 1 Desire Map Workshop, one of the participants decided that mending her marriage was in direct alignment with how she wanted to feel. They had a reconciliation dinner that evening and have been moving closer to harmony ever since.
In that same workshop, a participant who had been ready to leave her marriage for years but hadn't found the courage to do so, got support, clarity, bravery, sisterhood and connection in our sacred circle. She began divorce proceedings and signed a lease on a new home by our third day together. Fueled by her core desired feelings, her life continues to blossom in new and beautiful ways -- far beyond what she had ever imagined.
Two women, asking the same question and receiving very different answers -- both in alignment with their own core desired feelings.
Why do so many people struggle trying to create a life they love?
Ultimately, every choice we make is about how we think it's going to make us feel. The job, the marriage, the degrees, the resume, the social status, the bank account are only important because of how we think we'll feel when we achieve them -- powerful, smart, valuable, important, successful, etc. You're
So we strive, we push, we sacrifice, we struggle, only to arrive at our goal and realize that the feeling we thought we would experience when we got there is still evading us. Even when things look beautiful from the outside, we can feel empty on the inside.
Creating a life you love is about discovering how you want to feel first, then making choices that will fuel those feelings.
My core desired feelings are : Whole, Light, Free, In Bloom and In Communion. Every choice I make, every decision I consider, every yes, every no, is filtered through my core desired feelings first. Knowing how I want to feel helps me create a life I love, every step of the way.
What's the most surprising thing about living your desires?
It's easier than you think. When you're living in alignment with your soul's desires, you create soul-deep relationships with people who actually understand and appreciate you. Your work fulfills you creatively and financially. You honor your body with what you put in and on it. You say yes and no because you mean it -- not out of obligation. You stop waking up every morning exhausted and dreading your day. You let go of what is no longer working and get crystal clear about what you're doing next with your life.
When you live in alignment with your soul's desires you experience life in the flow. You speak your truth powerfully, lovingly, compassionately. You trust your choices and honor your life. Each yes builds on top of the last and leads you back home to yourself.
What is the best way to get clear about your desires?
Come experience three days of sanctuary, sisterhood, ceremony and deep soul diving with me live at the Inverloch Desire Map Workshop -- May 29-31. Together we will uncover your core desired feelings and map out goals in alignment with your soul's calling.
What is the one piece of knowledge you wish you had years ago?
When you're clear about how you want to feel, and align your life to fuel those feelings, miracles happen. No need for permission, approval, or striving to get it "right". All you need is the clarity and support to go after what you want and the willingness to get there one step, one breath, one moment at a time.
External approval is never sustainable. Internal alignment is. Synchronizing your life with your core desired feelings illuminates the path to your liberation, joy and freedom.
-- Are you ready to uncover your core desired feelings and create goals in alignment with your soul's true purpose? Find out more about the Inverloch Desire Map Workshop here ::www.sisterfire.com/desire-map-workshop or contact Chelsea at https://www.facebook.com/PurposefulPassion to book your tickets now. The early bird special is US $650 for bookings before the 8th of May, thereafter it is US$750